Thursday, March 29, 2012

The Perfect Best Friend ...

  I have always been looking for the perfect best friend and i found her last year. She completely changed my life , in only 4 years and she continues to do so. If I hadn't met her i don't think i would be the person i am now. In my opinion the qualities in a perfect best friend would have to be : a person whose always there for you , a person who tells you the straight up truth , and somebody who will always talk you through your problems .

  A Person Whose there for you :   If thhe person you are calling your best friend is some one who nerve answers the phone for you and has very little interests in what your trying to tell them well that's not your best friend. I find that if they are always there then they will always be there and that is a true quality in the perfect best friend The person who always tells you right from wrong and will answer the phone at 3 a.m. that's the one whose the keeper.


  A Person Who Tells You the Straight Up Truth : If they lie to make you happy well they can't be trusted. If they tell you the truth well then you can completely trust them. Even if the truth hurts its still the truth. I would rather have honesty over lies. If the situation is candy coated drop then that's a sign to drop that friendship like a hat. It seems the most logical in terms of trust.

  Somebody Will Always Talk You Through Your Problems : If your best friend always cares and listens to you problems well then they should stay. If they only expect you to listen to there problems and nothing else  they aren't good for any type of relationship. I find they should help you through your good and bad times. But you also have to help them in return... because then you wouldn't be the perfect best friend.

2 comments:

  1. Excellent post. And you're right: To have good friends, you need to be a good friend.

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  2. I completely agree, hmm I may need to reconsider some things, but very good post, really makes you think who is your real friend and who isn't.

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